Are you struck by how distant your partner seems? Have you noticed that he doesn't seem to let you in to what is happening at work, or in his life any more? Maybe you haven't talked about anything except VictoriaHearts.com review the kids and the house for a few weeks?
So you ask him if he is ok....and
he gets grumpy and defensive. Ultimately, you are left wondering what his odd
behaviour can mean, what can possibly be wrong with him....?
Actually, these are all signs that
he is having an emotional affair, or indulging in some emotional infidelity.
It Can Happen To Anyone
You might feel that emotional
infidelity can't happen to you, but the truth is that it is breathtakingly easy
to fall into the trap. In fact, there are times when men don't even intend to
have any sort of affair, but the lack of appreciation in their lives mean that
they are vulnerable to having one. Along comes a great looking woman who gives
him the flattery MeetMe.com he needs,
appeals to his ego...and before you know it, it is her that he is telling his
innermost secrets to.
The Signs
So, what are the main signs to look
out for?
* Appearing distant. This is
because he is thinking of his emotional affair and talking mainly with the
object of his affair
* He doesn't talk to you about what
he is doing online and with his phone, but he is always using it to call people
* He may lock part of his computer
so you Elitesingles cannot have
access
* A lack of interest in sex
* Increase in going out, extra dog
walking (so he can go out and talk with her)
* A lack of interest in family
matters, family outings and holidays
If your man is showing any or all
of these signs you have some serious problems. However, there are ways to
combat these issues. Sometimes it is best not go to in accusing him, since this
will simply make him defensive.
Reveal The Truth
You might begin by asking him some
innocent questions about his work, ones that are not accusatory. These
questions should be cleverly disguised to get him to reveal his feelings about
work not just what he is doing these days. This may reveal whether the target
of his emotional affair is at work or not.
You could also ask him if he found
anything good while online - joke about him buying a present for you, that is
why he has locked the computer. Keep it light.
While most people miss out on the
signs of emotional infidelity, you will be able to clearly see what is going on
and be able to take more steps to get your relationship back on track.
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